But He Never Hit Me: The Five Faces of Abuse You Weren't Taught to See

No matter how smart, capable, or self-aware you are…
it’s almost impossible to see abuse clearly when you’re inside of it.

This course gives you what you’ve always deserved but never got:
clarity, language, and validation, grounded in research and my lived experience.

 What You'll Learn

Inside this course, you’ll get a clear breakdown of the five major types of abuse most survivors experience but rarely name:

1. Emotional Abuse: How manipulation, criticism, and gaslighting reshape your identity.

2. Financial Abuse: How control of money becomes control of your options, choices, and future.

3. Technological Abuse: The modern tools abusers use to monitor, isolate, and intimidate you.

4. Sexual Abuse: What consent actually means, and how fear can replace true choice.

5. Physical Abuse: Why physical violence doesn’t always look like hitting.

Includes the Shape of Abuse Course Workbook

Your purchase includes the full 20+ page workbook with:

✔ Checklists for each type of abuse and reflection prompts

✔ A step-by-step system developed by Dr. Ruth to “map” the patterns in your relationship

 ✔ A personalized “Shape of Abuse” diagram you can use in healing or therapy

Who is this course for?

This course is for you if…

• You still wonder, “Was it really abuse?”
• Your relationship wasn’t “bad all the time,” but something felt off
• You feel confused about why it still affects you
• You left, but the emotional chaos hasn’t stopped

"I built this course because I wish it had existed when I was trying to understand my own relationship. I’m here as a researcher, yes. But also as a survivor."

— Dr. Ruth

Disclaimer: This is NOT a diagnostic service, not therapy, and not a clinical assessment.
It is simply structured reflection + expert analysis from someone who understands both the data and the lived experience.

If after completing the course, you feel it wasn’t supportive, you can request a full refund within 7 days. I only want you to pay for help that actually helps.