Personalized Shape of Abuse Analysis

“See your story with clarity you’ve never had before.”

 Your purchase includes the full 20+ page Shape of Abuse workbook with:

✔ Checklists for each type of abuse and reflection prompts

✔ A step-by-step system developed by Dr. Ruth to “map” the patterns in your relationship

 ✔ A personalized “Shape of Abuse” diagram you can use in healing or therapy

Upload your completed workbook, and I (Dr. Ruth) personally read through every detail you share. You’ll receive:

✔ A personalized, expanded analysis
I’ll walk through your responses and map out:

• The dominant forms of abuse you experienced, and how they interacted with each other
• Where the patterns were strongest and shaped identity, self-trust, or nervous system responses
• What stands out in your story from a research + survivor perspective

✔ A video message from me
I’ll talk through your “shape,” reflect back what I see, highlight your strengths and survival strategies, and help you understand why the patterns looked the way they did.

✔ A written summary you can refer back to
Easy to save, print, or bring into therapy or coaching.

Who This Is For

If you went through the mini-course and felt:

• “Wow, so much of this resonates but I don’t know what it means.”
• “My story feels confusing.”
• “I can’t tell whether this was abuse or just a bad relationship.”
• “I need someone to help me make sense of the patterns.”

This upgrade gives you that clarity.

Disclaimer: This is NOT a diagnostic service, not therapy, and not a clinical assessment.
It is simply structured reflection + expert analysis from someone who understands both the data and the lived experience.

If after receiving your analysis you feel it wasn’t supportive, you can request a full refund within 7 days. I only want you to pay for help that actually helps.