Support a Survivor’s Healing Journey

Every day, survivors reach out saying the same thing:

“I want help. I want support. I want to heal… but I can’t afford it right now.”

The Healing by the Numbers Scholarship Fund exists so that no one is denied access to healing tools because of financial or emotional barriers.

Your contribution directly funds scholarships for survivors who need:

  • The Shape of Abuse Workbook

  • The Full Course: “But He Never Hit Me… The Five Faces of Abuse You Weren't Taught to See"

  • Personalized Shape-of-Abuse Analysis

  • 1:1 Support Calls

Your donation helps someone gain life-changing clarity and validation at a time they need it most.

Choose your contribution. Every single dollar helps a survivor move one step closer to safety, clarity, and peace.

By donating, you are telling a survivor,

"YOU deserve support, even if life is hard right now.”

How It Works

  1. Choose a contribution amount (Pay What You Want)

  2. Your donation goes directly into the Scholarship Fund

  3. Survivors apply via a trauma-informed, no-shame application

  4. Scholarships are awarded as funds become available (I review applications on a weekly basis)

You’ll receive confirmation of your contribution, and every dollar is used solely to support survivors accessing healing tools.

Why Your Contribution Matters

Abuse is isolating, confusing, and often minimized, especially when there were no bruises or “obvious” harm.

Your support helps provide:

  • Clarity (“Was this abuse?”)

  • Validation (“It makes sense I feel this way.”)

  • Language to talk about what happened

  • Direction for healing

  • Relief from self-blame

  • Tools for rebuilding identity and trust

For many survivors, these are the first steps toward reclaiming their lives.

A Note From Dr. Ruth

Whether you give $5 or $1,000, your support makes a real difference in someone’s ability to access trauma-informed, research-based, survivor-approved healing tools.

You’re helping someone who lived through hell feel less alone, less confused, and more supported than they have in a long time.

THIS is how we heal! Together, and by the numbers.

Yours (statistically),
Dr. Ruth